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The Inconsequential “Golden Ticket”

I dont write about sex or relationship often 1. because I know I dont have all the answers and 2. not one relationship can be compared to another. But earlier ,last week, while on twitter @willspringfield posted something so profound  and so funny but it was s on point!
                                

Those who arent following him should know that Will has a colorful personality. I always see him on my TL and I giggle cause he is off the chain, btw a great photographer. ((((FOLLOW HIM))))) . . but lets get back on subject :)

There are some females out in the world who use their  goods as the “golden ticket”. Giving ultimatiums and threats forgetting that the very thing in between their  legs that they claim to ” cherish ” so much  is the same  in between the next chicks. so really, what makes YOU so different?  I’m not about to put all my business out in the street cause that’s  not how I roll. Some things are meant to STAY personal,but rest assured Im the type of women who has something more to offer than the juicy fruit, lol. With my experience a man, anyone, wants a partner not something you can dispose of  once you are finished with it. . . but hey some do. So, if thats all you are offering and nothing outside of that a woman shouldn’t get caught up in her feelings when a guy is done with her. Makes sense , right?  Well I dont even think its begun to tap into the first layer of somes skulls.  . . .

The P*&8Y ( lol) may be a powerful thing , however ( women) we need to realize it’s ( yours)  not the last one on earth so it shouldnt even be put on the table in negotiations of trying to get what you want.  So, women before you even begin your tirade of ” he aint doing. . .” or ” he doesn’t I’m gonna. . ” make sure you check yourself and make sure that your situation is on point and Im not just talking about the situation   between your legs, but instead between your ears. Ladies. . . please get your minds right. Bring more to the table.

Change; the natural phenomenon

Are some people  afraid of change? It’s a question but partly  sad truth, but some love to continue to live their lives through the rear view mirror. They react to current situations based on their past very rarely seeing that not everything is the same or should even be compared. My floating question to all of this is WHY? Why not accept change knowing that it can potentially put you in a better situation, better mindset? Change is inevitable especially as we grow, but  I suppose people are set in their ways. I at one point was, but being stagnant was doing nothing for me. I saw my current situation and I chose to do something about it so I could be a better person, not for someone else but for ME. I completely understand that our past makes us who we are and it is all life lessons, but we shouldnt solely be defined on our past but more so how we’ve over came it. Some people don’t get it. They just see that we’ve changed and they dwell in that. You hear, ” oh you “brand-new”" ” or even the assumptions they you are better than other.   Change is not necessarily a bad thing sometime people  can’t believe that good can come from it.

 Honestly at one point I cared about this. I once thought that change meant losing myself. It doesn’t mean that at all. For instance my personal change opened my eyes of acceptance of myself. In a way I believe I was a little lost before but I found my way. In the process,  certain people in my life couldn’t accept my change within myself. When I closed certain chapters in my life and was doing things to better myself I thought some of those around me would be happy. Instead I received an opposite reaction. Quickly I realized that people who make you feel bad because you are changing for the better  and are happy  should hold no place in your circle or heart.  One of my friends said to me once, ” Some People don’t know how to accept  change or grow up; maybe they don’t even  want to grow up.” Perhaps he is right, but no one will never know . I am, however,  fortunate enough that I realized that sooner than later and took the situation of change for what it was . Bottom Line= some just can’t accept change within themselves, life or others. Change is a natural phenomenon and I’ve changed for the better. I urge others to do the same and embrace it positively , not just in ourself but in others as well I hope everyone continues to keep their head up in their life journey

So Thankful

I have a lot to be thankful for. I am thankful for the love and genuine happiness in my life as well as the support from my friends family and everyone who takes time out of their day to check out www.JessicaRochelle.com. I know that I am by far a raving celeb and honestly I could care less if I ever get to that level. I’m just thankful that you all have taken the time out to get some insight about myself seeing that I have things to talk about and  are often profound in my thoughts. Thank you for accepting me and loving me for who and how I am. The goofiness to  seriousness  and everything in between.

Thank you all who have stood by my side and thank you for the ones who thought I fell off, lol. Both motivate me just the same to keep on pushing. Just with anything else there is only moving forward and I keep doing it one step at a time. No one will ever see my cards until I’m ready to play them :)   Everyone and I do mean EVERYONE be blessed in not just this  day, but everyday  and enjoy the life you have and all the love that surrounds you. At the end of the day that is whats most important.  As always stay tuned to whats to come here on my site. I will be doing some revamping soon so look out for that. In the mean time Happy Thanksgiving.

Much Love always!